The author expresses their views on relationships and how they prefer to maintain a positive outlook without compromising their values. They discuss the prevalence of cheating, open relationships, and commitment issues in today's society and how they do not wish to adopt those views. The author encourages finding a compatible person who shares the same desires without trying to change others' minds.

The post discusses the persistence of some men in engaging in inappropriate chats and sending unsolicited photos even after being politely declined. The author shares personal experiences and questions why such behavior is becoming more common, especially towards women who never encouraged it.

Approaching women for fun while being married or in a serious relationship is disrespectful and shows a lack of respect for the woman. Women should not be seen as an option or scraps. Men who pretend to be single when they are married need to grow up and act like adults. Majority of women are not looking to be used and have their time wasted by immature men who cannot offer anything down the line. This behavior is cowardly and should not be tolerated.